Tuesday, December 28, 2010
A Peruvian X-Mas
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Weddings, Archeologists from Utah, Health Convention
First, I attended my first wedding ever. It was fitting that it should be a Peruvian wedding, because I don't think anything could top it. The bride was the host sister of one of the volunteers in my deparment. She became kinda pregnant one day and, well, being good Catholics and such, decided to get married. They were a really sweet couple and they looked good together.
After they signed the necessary legal documents at the municipality, we all left in the back of a pick-up truck to go the party. The party was at the house of the bride and my friend. Her house is quite different than mine. Whereas I have electricity, running water, an indoor toilet, she has neither of those things. It was good to see her situation, and although she couldn't be happier at her site, I felt lucky to have what I do at mine.
Peruvians are very convivial people. I chatted with one of the groom's relatives for a while before the party started. He told me about the crops that his family plants and how long it took him to get to the party (Peruvians love small talk). Then everything got under way. The bride and groom arrived, performed the perfunctory dances with family and friends (Myself and other volunteers were invited to dance with them, being the honorary gringos and all, but my friends declined, and I wasn't listening when the MC asked us).
Then came the food. We ate some pretty good lamb and tamal for the first course. Then the specialty of the north of Peru, goat was served for the main course. I devoured all of this food and a guest bought an Inka Cola (bubble gum flavored soda - I think I'm the only volunteer who considers it delicious) for the other 5 gringos and myself.
Once we ate, the chelas (cervezas) came out. We all danced, drank, and laughed for a good 7 hours until about 5AM. That's when the fights broke out. Some friends and I watched from the safety of a bedroom as the groom and one of his friends exchanged punches in the house, two groups of drunk guys rumbled outside, and a new mom beat down a guy with an empty beer bottle in one hand and her baby in the other. Though there was some blood, I don't think anyone got seriously hurt and I awoke a couple of hours later to find a few of the guys who had been fighting drinking champagne and playing guitar on the front porch. All-in-all, it was a great first wedding for me.
A few days later (or before; I can't really remember. The days just kinda blur together.) My dad mentioned that he had met some archeologists from the University of Utah who were digging around some ruins just outside of my site. Him and I went there to the ruins the next day to say "hi." The ruins are of a church built about 100 years ago. They sit right on the edge of the beach about 100 meters from the ocean. The church was built on top of an older structure laid down by Spanish colonists. The colonists in-turn built their structure over that of one of the Mochica people. The Mochica leaved in this area before the Inca and their language is still spoken by some native Etenanos (Ciudad Eten Native = Etenano).
It was interesting to see some gringos in my site and speak English. There are about 8 of them here for the semester and they will be returning in December. I'll probably go visit them again, because they are finding some really interesting stuff. They uncovered about 6 grave sites and still have lots more digging to do.
To top off my interesting couple of weeks, I got to attend a conference of the regional health department and help give a PowerPoint presentation (I hate PowerPoint, but that's how they do things here so I had to go along) on the work that my community partners and I are doing.
To my delight, the meeting took place at a Lebanese restaraunt! Unfortunately (predictably) we were served regular Peruvian fare, but I asked the owner, and he told me that they do indeed serve Lebanese food. I will definitely be returning to try it out.
My two partners, Rebeca, the obstetrician, and Glenny, the professora, have been working on health issues in the schools here for the past 3 years. I was really lucky to inheret such a strong project from them and the previous volunteers with whom they have been working.
We spent all day yesterday putting together the presentation. It was split into three sections. Rebeca spoke first about the past projects they have been doing over the years. They entailed an artisan class for young mothers, a group of mothers who made papa rellenas (a dumpling-like dish) to sell, and a student march to mark World AIDS Day (December 1st if you're wondering). Then Glenny took over and spoke about some of the health classes they have been giving various themes like AIDS, teen pregnancy, and mental health/self-esteem issues. I finished it off by talking about our latest project that will combine all of the past themes and try to measure the how much the kids have learned through a serious of surveys.
I actually like speaking infront of large groups of people. I find that my Spanish is better when I have to project my voice and keep the attention of an audience. There were about 50 nurses and obstetricians and I had a lot of fun speaking to them. Because some of them had worked with other volunteers, they knew about the Peace Corps and were more than welcoming to me. This experience really made me grateful for what I get to do down here in Peru. These people work everyday with health issues in often dire conditions and here I am, some 23 year old kid who studied polisci in college and has no professional public health training, let alone in a developing country. Yet, they wanted to hear what I had to say and treated me as an equal in their field.
It's so cool meeting new people and living in a completely different culture. I'm extremely lucky to get an opportunity like this and I wish everyone could do it.
Chau!
Saturday, October 16, 2010
16-10-10 Fun in Cayalti
The day after that, I traveled up to Zaña and Cayalti to help to fellow volunteers with a job/college fair they held for the kids up their way. I had been to these two towns before on an earlier visit while I was still in training and it was nice to go back and see the volunteers up there and their host families. I had to take a 20 minute car ride to Chiclayo and then take a combi (which is like a little van that they pack to the brim with people. I got a nice seat up front so I was relatively comfortable.) for the hour-long ride up to Cayalti.
Something funny happened when I first got on the combi. As I approached it a nice older lady welcomed me and helped me with some of my things. For some reason I thought she was the cobrador (which is the person who stands in the van with the passengers and collects their money and calls the stops) even though I have never seen a elderly female cobrador. So I wasn't thinking and after we had a conversation about where I was from and what I was doing in Peru, I went to sit up front. After a couple of minutes I noticed that some people had given her money. For some reason, although they never ask for the money up front, I thought she was the cobrador and that she was collecting our money. The trip cost S./3.50 (about $1.25) so I thought I would give her S./5.50 and get a nice shiney S./2.00 piece back. Well as most of you have probably figured out, she wasn't the cobrador and was actually just asking for money. After I gave her my money I realized that I made a mistake and had to awkwardly ask her for the 5 soles that I had just given her. I figured I should let her keep the 50 cents. She understood and gave it back and wished me luck on my trip.
I finally got to Cayalti and Zaña and the fair that my friends put on was a huge success. They really worked hard to get it down and it showed. A ton of universities and institutes came in to present the 500 kids or show who showed up with their options for the future. After talking with some of the kids I think this was the first time some of them had actually thought about what to do after high school. It was nice talking to them because I could relate to that overwhelming feeling of cluelessness that just about all high school seniors face.
This week coming up I have my host mom's birthday and a visit from some of the office personnel from Lima. I'll also be planning a series of classes about sexual and mental health for the young ones. I'll keep everyone updated on how all of that goes.
Friday, October 1, 2010
Teen Pregnancy Play
Sex, Sex, and more SEX
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Upcoming Projects
Although I initially thought living with a host family would be annoying, I have come to see how beneficial it really is. I sometimes feel like a teenager again - like being told when and what to eat - their utility has really shown itself. Most recently, as I begin working on these smaller projects. I have just come back from the library that my dad runs. Him and I brainstormed for about a half hour and came up with some very exciting projects.
First, we will be holding a weekly movie night at the library. It will start next Friday with The Pianist. I thought this movie might be a little too mature for a younger audience (though I admit I haven't seen it), but my dad thought it would be fine for them. Since I haven't seen it and he knows the kids better than I, I trust him. My dad works for the municipality so he can borrow a projector from the municipality that we can use.
Another project will be a chess club. This was my dad's idea. I don't know much about chess, but he says the kids will love it. Apparently they had one last year, but it kind of fell off. He already has the chess boards and everything.
We are also going to start a book club. Some complain that kids in the States don't read enough, well they should see Peru. Practically nobody here reads for fun. To exacerbate the problem, books are very expensive and libraries are few (that's why I'm so lucky to have a librarian as a host dad). I'll start this project a few weeks after the movie night so that I can get to know the kids and gauge their interest. I'm really excited about this one. I myself love to read and I think it's immensely important that kids start this habit early.
The final project we came up with will require a bit more work. We want to hold a womens marathon. They held a mens marathon here a few years ago, but never one for the ladies. Because there exists a lot of machismo culture here in Peru, it would be great to hold an event just for women in which they can display their physical talent and discipline.
So all this has got me very excited. I've already bought supplies to make signs for the movie night to post around town.
Later today, I have a meeting with a group of high school students who are going to perform a play about teen pregnancy as part of a department wide competition with other schools. Our group won the first part of the competition which was to make a poster for the prevention of teen pregnancy, so hopefully we can carry the momentum over into this play.
I'll let you all know how everything goes!
Chau,
Roberto
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Getting to Know the Town
Without a place to drink our wine and beer, we decided to return to the first house. We relaxed there for a bit and discussed the differences between cultures and politics in the US and Peru. For instance, they find it fascinating that people move out at 18 and start their own lives. In Peru, children usually stay in their parents' house until they are married or even then they may just move their family into their parents' house. It's not unusual for people in their 40's or 50's to live with their parents.
We talked and finished the wine (which is very sweet in Peru. It's almost like a port.). Then my dad and I walked over to his sister's house. She has a very nice house and we talked and played with her grandchildren for a little while.
After that, we walked over to the town center. It is election season and all of the different campaigns have headquarters around the main plaza. My dad is well connected with the current administration and is good friends with the mayor, so we went into his campaign headquarters. Now this is more or less against Peace Corps policy. As non-political volunteers, we shouldn't be seen to be aligned with any particular political party. With this in-mind, I planned to only stay for a little while, but I had to walk a fine line. I want to integrate within the community and spend time with my host dad, but I didn't want to appear to be supporting the mayor's reelection campaign.
I stayed in the headquarters for a bit and passed the vaso with my dad and the mayor and the campaign staff. "Passing the vaso" is the manner in which Peruvians drink. It involves passing around a bottle of beer and a vaso (glass) in a circle. After the bottle of wine and a few beers and not very much food, I was starting to feel the alcohol so I excused myself and returned home; where I started to write this blog entry. I ate some graham crackes and I'm not feeling the booze so much anymore.
We were supposed to have a pollada (a community chicken feast) so I'm going to go find that now because I'm starving.
Chau, amigos!
Saturday, August 28, 2010
All Kinds of Tranquilo
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Teen Pregnancy and the Bed Bath and Beyond of Peru
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Swearing-in
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Fiestas Patrias
Of course my fellow volunteers and I, being the cultural junkies that we are and trying our best to integrate into Peruvian life, took this opportunity to visit a Fiestas Patrias party that one of the host families threw. I showed up at 11 AM to find the beers flowing, the food cooking, the music blaring and dancing in full swing. My friend Adam, whose family threw the party, and a couple of the other volunteers and I helped prepare food and get everything organized. Adam’s mom, Gloria, is an amazing cook and one of the nicest people I’ve met. I’ve been to his house about 10 times and every time she makes sure I am well fed. It was also her birthday so we all wanted to make this day extra special for her by helping out with the cooking and just generally showing her a good time.
While we were all in the kitchen, Adam’s dad, Lucho, called me over for a secret mission. He was going to pick up Gloria’s birthday cakes from a bakery in the next town and asked if I wanted to help. His dad’s awesome and I love spending one-on-one time with Peruvians speaking Spanish so I took him up on the offer and we hopped into his 1987 Camry and sped off.
Because it was a holiday, there was mucha congestión on the road. But luckily, Lucho knew a short cut. He pulled off down a narrow side street, almost collided with a mototaxi (like a rickshaw tricycle thing), and before I knew it we were flying at a breakneck 40 MPH down a dirt road. A few more near collisions later we arrived at the bakery and collected the cakes.
When we got back to the party more volunteers and family members had arrived. I quickly grabbed a plate of food: ceviche (raw fish that is “cooked” in lemon with onions and garlic – it’s REALLY GOOD), a delicious potato dish, chicken and rice (which is like the Peruvian equivalent to pizza or cheeseburgers in the States because they eat it so much here), and yucca. I had just sat down when I saw Lucho walking over to me with a huge grin on his face and two pitchers of some mysterious liquid in his hands. I didn’t need an explanation of what was in the pitchers, Lucho’s grin said it all – he loves getting drunk with the gringos (that’s what they call us white people by the way). He poured me a big glass of the mysterious liquid and explained to me what it was. It was Chicha de Jorra, a drink made with corn and fermented barley that they drink in the mountains. It was delicious and I can’t think of a comparison to it back in the states.
After some eating and a bit more Chicha de Jorras, some of us guys decided that we needed to integrate our group of gringos with the group of Peruvians that was sitting on the other side of the yard. We got up and invited some of the moms and grandmas to dance. I’m a terrible dancer, but so are most Peruvians so I felt right in my element. We danced for a while and then decided to work on some superlatives for our class of volunteers. These consisted of some pretty innocuous ones like, “most likely to learn Quecha,” and “most likely to kiss a Peruvian,” but there were some other more risqué ones like, “most likely to knock up a host sister.” We tried explaining the idea to our Peruvian friends, but they didn’t get the idea at all. I guess we just sucked at translating.
After the superlatives, a couple of people and I decided to share some American culture with our Peruvian hosts. I had shown some of my friends how to make pizza at Adam’s house a few weeks ago and his parents really loved it so we thought we would do it again. We commandeered the kitchen from Gloria, put on our aprons and got to work. We made about six or seven pizzas all from scratch: dough and sauce and all the accoutrements. Vegetables and fruits are really cheap in Perú so we bought lots of avocados (which you can get for about a dollar here), mushrooms, peppers, onions, tomatoes, and anything else we thought would go good on a pizza. We even made a BBQ chicken pizza and a spicy pineapple pizza which were big hits.
After the pizza we sang Happy Birthday and Cumpleaños Feliz to Gloria and devoured the cake. I think Gloria had a really good time which made me really happy because she is always very nice to us and never thinks twice before opening her home to us and filling our bellies. It was a really swell time and a right proper way to celebrate my first Fiestas Patrias. I hope the next two I have here are just as good.
Chau!